2 Little Lovebugs

I received the necklace on Monday and it instantly brought a smile to my face. :) We were outside playing with Briella and her friends (9 year old girls) when I opened the package and I got to show them the necklace and explain to them what we were doing with it. Briella loved the necklace, Adam loved the necklace, I loved the necklace.


That evening I made Jessica Read's delicious chicken enchiladas and spilled a little bit on the necklace. Don't worry, I licked it off ;) KIDDING! Adam loved playing with it while he was nursing and while he was sitting on my lap facing me. Briella wanted to wear it and got a huge grin on her face when I put it on her (unfortunately I wasn't able to get a good picture of her wearing it).

The necklace traveled with us to Briella's gymnastics class where she twirled and whirled and kept ignoring me. AND my time with the necklace would not have been complete if I didn't make a trip to Target wearing it. So I made a special trip just for the necklace :)

All in all, my time with the necklace was not spent doing anything spectacular just doing my normal activities as a mom of two little lovebugs. I really enjoyed wearing the necklace and it brought a smile to my face on several occasions. It was nice to feel that you all were walking around with me. I hope you all enjoying your time with it and I hope it brings you a little bit of sunshine :)

Love you all,

Bethany

We got the bug baby!

We received the love bug when Harper caught the bug at daycare! Don't worry we will lysol wipe it before sending it off ;) When I went to check the mail on Tuesday after getting Harper from day care, I was excited to see the little package. Inside was a notebook and a cute locket case..I couldn't help but think about the movie; Sisterhood of the traveling pants.

Since I have had the locket, I have been at home trying to entertain my fiesty 7mth old who does not feel well. I have slowly been pulling my hair out..checking the feb mama board, pinning like crazy & chugging coffee. I was lucky enough to be able to take off the rest of the week to stay at home with her, so hopefully she feels better!

Although the locket hasn't cured my sick baby or has done anything magical, I am blessed to have a group who I can rely on for questions, tips, uplifting thoughts & prayers but most of all..someone to be there in the middle of the night when no one else is. I don't get involved too much with personal posts, elfster etc but don't think I don't care! When I read about the love bug locket, I couldn't wait to carry you ladies around with me (even if it was around the house). You all have made my pregnancy and start at motherhood so much easier and I couldn't be more grateful. Hopefully the locket will come back to me again and I can bring it through a day in the life of a Coastie :) Until then, I am sending it off tomorrow to continue its journey to all of you! Bethany Morris be on the lookout ;)

There's Strength in the Simple...

I arrived home last night to an empty house. While it's always a bit sad at first, when I walk by our wall of pictures, I'm reminded of how "full" our house is-- even when my husband is away. And away he is. He will be gone every Tuesday-Friday for the next 14 weeks. It's just Avery and I, and this year, a new house full of boxes. And if I even for a moment begin to feel sorry for myself (which I inevitably begin to at times-- I'm only human and I'm REALLY tired these days), I think of all the strong women who are single mothers or who have husbands that are gone for months serving our country. Tuesday through Friday doesn't seem so bad.

I also arrived home last night to a surprise in my mailbox. Our mail has been a bit sparse lately while the post office continues to process our forwarding request. So when I saw the padded envelope from Kari, I was thrilled! Av and I went inside and we immediately opened it up.

She asked nicely, so I let her try it on...

And in that moment, I was struck by how amazing it was that this special necklace was about to embark upon such a unique journey. Strong women, who I have come to know and respect, would be opening that same package (well, maybe not the same, as I tore it from top to bottom in my eagerness to see the contents) and would be sharing bits of themselves as they wore it for just a couple days. And it reminded me of the special pieces of jewelry the women in my family have passed down through the years and the journeys those items have made.

When my grandmother (a widower and eternal optimist) first learned she had cancer, my mom and I bought her this cross necklace:

She wore through all of her chemo treatments and each doctor's appointment, including the one where they told her there was nothing else they could do. I wore it to her funeral, and it continues to be one of my most meaningful possessions.

When I went through my divorce, I was so emotionally (and physically) drained that I didn't know how I was going to re-start my life. At 29, I had walked away (for good reason) from seven years of people, places and memories. My mom (a wicked strong single mother) was on the first plane to Connecticut to hold my hand and support me through it. And she did it without saying "I told you so" about my choice of Husband #1.

One month later when I called her to tell her that just days after my kamikaze exit, I met this amazing new man and I thought sure he was "the one," she shared in my excitement, although was probably understandably weary of such a quick turnaround. Six months later when she visited and saw how happy I was, she took this off her finger and offered it to Ben (for when he was ready):

What was extra special is that my grandmother had also worn it. And, since this was NEVER offered to Husband #1, I knew my mom saw the strength in what Ben and I had found.

My jewelry box has many more little trinkets that make a quirky metal quilt of special moments in my life. The pin my brother bought me with his first bit of allowance. The earrings from my first boyfriend who said we'd never break up (which we did...the next week). My sorority letters on their delicate chain. Most, if not all, have no monetary value, but are the winning lottery ticket when it comes to sentimental value.

I know this necklace won't find a permanent home in my jewelry box, but having it for just a moment will be a story I share with Avery when I teach hew about the power of women. We've laughed. We've fought. We've supported each other at 3 am (and 4am, and 5am....). In a year, we've had divorces and experienced family deaths, we've grown both closer and respectfully apart, and still we find new ways to make each other smile. Honestly, it could be a piece of string with a bottle cap tied to it, and it would still be an honor to wear it.

It's only day one of its visit, and while nothing out of the ordinary has happened, it has certainly reminded me of my extraordinary blessings.

I hope, at the least, it does that for you too.

Sending the Lovebug Necklace off

I am sending the lovebug necklace off today to it's first home with Jennifer Cerny. I am so excited to see if the magic of the necklace works for her as it did for me! 

I wore the necklace for a few days - including the first few days of back to work! Which for me meant BACK TO SCHOOL with 25 lovely fifth graders. As I anxiously awaited my new crop of kids to arrive, I found myself with my hand around the necklace. I was anxious about if my new students would like me (as I am every year) and also missing my baby, Landyn. As my hand wrapped around the necklace, I thought of all of the amazing women that the necklace represented. I was suddenly calmed and ready for the arrival of my new students.

I told many people the story of the necklace in the days that I wore it as well. They wanted to know about each charm and what it represented. I told them about the strength of Kim and how the cross represented our two angels, and about Walker, and really about all of the babies and their moms. I let them know that the ladies this locket was traveling to were some of my very closest friends, and that I wished everyone could belong to a group like we do.

And with that love and admiration and appreciation and gratitude, I send the lovebug necklace on it's trek around the continent. It will journey from CT to many different states, and even another country to our Canada mamas. I can't wait to see the adventures the lovebug necklace takes and to read the stories. I hope that my fellow mamas will blog about their experiences, and I hope that you all (whoever you are!) enjoy reading it.

Good luck with the necklace Jen, and all of my other Feb Mamas. I love you all.

<3 Kari 

The lovebug necklace is ready to go!